You just made me all kinds of happy. Have you read the "Dreambender" series under that pen name? It's portal fantasy, but the MCs change gender when in the otherworld.
This is the link to the first book of three - Smite. The first one is super hero game based, the second is fantasy based, and the their is lara croft/game based. Yeah, I was writing people living in their game words even before I new there was LitRPG and some rules and tropes to follow.
I loved writing the Randy Elfmaid books. I plan to write more, but make them full novels. KU doesn't love novellas.